What is Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is any incident of threatening behaviour, violence or abuse - physical, emotional, psychological, financial or sexual - between adults who are or ever have been intimate partners, or are family members, regardless of gender or sexuality.

It can happen in any family and in all kinds of homes, across all sections of the community regardless of age, gender, race or sexual orientation.

It can happen only once, or repeatedly over many years.

What is the Law and What can the Police Do?

• Domestic violence is a crime, it is unacceptable and should not be tolerated.
• The police will take positive action.
• Priority will be given to the victim and any children involved.
• Police can arrest an offender if a criminal offence such as assault has taken place.
• If no offence has taken place, police may still remove the offender as a precaution.
• Police can offer support and advice and refer you to partner agencies.

What can I do and Where can I get help?... Be Strong

	Blame does not lie with you, but with the person who is being violent.
	Encourage the person who is being abused to tell someone or seek help.
	Shock, stress, anger, powerlessness, confusion, panic attacks, distress, low self esteem, unable to concentrate at school, are all common reactions.
	Talk to someone you trust such as a teacher, friend, or social worker.
	Remain safe at all times; hide whilst the fighting is going on. Do not put yourself in danger!
	Others experience domestic violence within the family - up to 1:10 families a year - you are not alone.
	Notify the police in an emergency by dialling 999.
	Get help from contacting any of the following: National Domestic Violence Helpline: 0808 2000 247 Childline: 0800 1111 NSPC: 0808 5000 National Samaritans: 08457 909090 National Citizens Advice Bureau: 08451 203712 Law Society: 020 72421 222